It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
Alfred Lord Tennyson
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When I see you smile, and know it is not for me, then that is when I will miss you the most
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You don't die from a broken heart, you only wish you did
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I'm going to smile and make you think I'm happy, I'm going to laugh, so you don't see me cry, I'm going to let you go in
style,
and even if it kills me- I'm going to smile.
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A thousand words could not bring you back
I know because I have tried
Neither would a thousand Tears
I know because I have cried
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You left behind a broken heart
And happy memories too
But I never wanted memories
I only wanted You
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I can forget the tears and hurt you put me through
but I cant forget the laughs and special times I shared with you
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I think of you in Silence
I often speak your name
All I have left are memories and a heart around your Name
My Heart aches with sadness
and all my tears will flow
but what it meant to lose you
no-one will ever know
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I wish there were a way I could go back in time
To hold you in my arms
As if you were mine
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Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.
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No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never get through it without your friends.
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Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.
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It takes a couple seconds to say Hello, but forever to say Goodbye.
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Take away love and our earth is a tomb.
- Robert Browning
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Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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The heart was made to be broken.
- Oscar Wilde
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Just give me time and I’ll get over you.
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When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. You are no longer alive.
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I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.
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It’s hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does.
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I just broke up with someone and the last thing she said to me was “You’ll never find anyone like me again!” I’m thinking, “I should hope not! If I don’t want you, why would I want someone like you
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Sometimes the person you really need is the one you didn’t think you wanted.
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Moving on is simple, it’s what you leave behind that makes it so difficult.
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Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.
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The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live.
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If someone you love hurts you cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it.
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The scars you can’t see are the hardest to heal.
- Astrid Alauda
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Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours.
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Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
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The hardest part of dreaming about someone you love is having to wake up.
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As soon as forever is through, I’ll be over you.
- Toto
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There’s a girl in my mirror crying tonight, and there’s nothing I can say to make her feel all right.
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I was born the day I met you, lived a while when you loved me, died a little when we broke apart.
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The worst way to love someone is to sit next to them, knowing they don’t love you back.
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Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.
- Lamartine
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I don’t want to keep being the girl that keeps crying about the same things.
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You don’t realize how much you care about someone until they don’t care about you.
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I wish you weren’t in my dreams.
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If you can’t save the relationship, at least save your pride.
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Buy yourself something fun at least once a month, splurge a little. 
Splurge on a guilty pleasure, turn on your favorite show, make some popcorn with lots of butter, grab some chocolate, put on jammies, and just relax. Turn off the computer, phones, just block out anything other then your fun stuff. 
Put some inspirational notes around your apartment reminding yourself why life is so good. It can be, "I love my cat" or "I recycle" or "I have pretty green eyes." It doesn't matter, whatever will make you feel good, post it somewhere. 
Be true to yourself. Always say what you think and do what you know is right. Never apologize for it or feel the need to explain yourself. 
Plan a "you" night. Make some popcorn with lots of butter, grab some hot chocolate or a glass of wine, turn on your favorite movie or tv show, and turn off the computer and phones. 
Take a Yoga class. Meditate. Read an inspirational book.
Go out for a long walk. Exercise always feels so good and it also feels good to get out in nature. Enjoy both, take the dog out or plan a picnic with friends and find a nature trail to walk.
Forgive yourself: whatever it is that you regret, whether it be snapping at your partner, forgetting to pick up the dry cleaning, or eating that chocolate sundae, just forget it and move on. It does no good to keep reliving the past, you can only start a new future. 
